While it's good to have these discussions, I feel a lot of perhaps unnecessary forming heat in being suggestively pushed to a corner myself where my "behaviour" is being compared to causing violences and genocides in the world... and Nurmberg on top of that. I'm sure that wasn't your intention.
That said. I stand by my point that diversity shouldn't just be standardized, but also celebrated; it shows to the rest of the world that the standardization of diversity (be it sex, race, LGBTQ, etc.) works and is a good thing to strive towards. I do however agree that tokenism is something we should probably avoid as it in my opinion just fakes it all.