I uploaded some graphs of how we were connected. all the blew is "my network", while the red is everything that you have a 3 level deep relation with as seen from my perspective.
Before we followed each other we were related through a 2nd-line relation via @ssb.learningsocieties.org (we both follow that pub) and a 3rd line on the @ssb.organicdesign.pub (you follow a friend via that follows the pub). then we have a common friend @The Weekly that has done some broadcasting too.
Files are on my webdav: