So how do we build systems that systematically arn't oppressive?

(some reactions are that systems are the problem, but I counter that even if we go back to growing our food directly in the dirt, all the techniques and knowledge we use for that are a system)

By the time we have a phone in our hands, we are holding a system, except it's really holding us.

We need a field of feminist engineering.

(this is what scuttlebutt is trying to be, but this is obviously just a first step)