I'm sorry for putting you through a hard time. It is not my intention to erase you or make you conform to anything. I think that by attempting to explain myself, I might have made things worse. Sorry.
Thanks for pointing out mistakes I've made. I'll learn from them, and behave better in the future.
I understand that you and your friends are going through a very hard moment. I know I can't do anything to help, and that you don't need or want any of my help, I just wanted to say that I really hope you and yours get through this soon.