I think what you smelt @bobhaugen was me trying to signal I felt the comment was polarising, and I didn't enjoy it. I could totally have misread it.

I felt like I posted "I'm totally up for hearing this problem, and I'm interested in exploring the broader dynamics together, here's how I think we could do that".
And what came back was "clientside cannot ignore this"

I read it like that because I was signalling I was onside with exploring this and there wasn't an acknowledgement of that. If that didn't mean anything then perhaps they were doubling down with a pushy assertion. Readying again they could have just been musing and re-phrasing. Anyway thanks for raising that @bobhaugen and apologies if I read wrongly. If there was something else going on for you @Aljoscha that needs sayin, I'd love to hear it.

I don't assume @Aljoscha is stupid at all with regard to knowing what's what with how low level ssb works. I think they're far more experienced.
I think I'm more experienced in building clientside, and I think by working together we can figure out some awesome solutions.