ALL YOUR BUTTS
The gossip is too gossipy!
my understanding is that anyone can connect to any other pub or user, and as long as they can name a user, they can say "Hey, ahh, have you heard from @ye+QM09... recently?" And that computer will be like, "Oh you know @ye+QM09... ! Yeah dawg I got you, here's all their messages" ... which happen to include messages about other people.
Rinse / lather / repeat ==> you have all the humyn data connected from anyone connected to one another in any way
My explicit fear is the emergence of a Google-butt.
It starts as a really excellent service - Hey I notice you have a hard to navigate p2p web there... can I interest you in a map or guidebook to help you on your way? YES PLEASE.
Once the Google-butt is insinuated it's hard to get rid off because it's so gosh darn useful. Meanwhile the Google-butt has some overheads, but you know what, it's been spidering its way across the scuttle-pelago and it sure does have a lot of user data. It's got social graphs out the wazoo. Only a matter of time till your data is the product and things you've said are being batch processed by large institutions.
Gossip among friends
I'm at a party and some stranger walks up to me and we get talking. Turns out they're a person one of my friends has mentioned a bunch. We have a laugh at the serendipity. They ask how our mutual friend is and I give them the goss
Perhaps our scuttlebots should be more discerning. I want to see evidence that a person knows one of my friends before I starting spewing their infomation.
Possible ways to do this:
- only talk to strangers who have been followed by someone you know
- only talk to strangers who have been mentioned in your social circle
- expect total strangers to bring proof of friendship before you invite them them in to your party
- a note with their signature on it!
Wait this makes the network even harder to navigate
Maybe not. I mean this is how my in person networks work and they work fine. There's no public index, it just works.
Could be that clear patterns for introducing friends makes it more personal, and build more of the connection that we want to see.
I personally still want to talk with strangers at open events. I'm not quite sure how that works. I think there are different sorts of follows. Like I follow you enough at an event to want to hear a bit about you, but that's not the same as recommending you to my friends dinner party. This might be another problem for ssb-actual-friends - it's easy to see if I only spoke to you for 5 minutes a year ago.... you're probably not a close friend. Meanwhile you can see I go to Art~Hack with @mikey every week
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